The following was written by my husband:
The following is very long, and boring, and
sad. I wrote this the afternoon after we got the verdict, while I sat
in the bedroom and tried to process everything. It jumps around a good
bit, and it leaves out lots of stuff that may make it hard to follow.
Sue me….haha! As I have just found out, the odds are you will lose!
As many of you may know, my family and I have spent the last week and a half in court. After 5 long years, we finally had our chance to present our case in my mother’s wrongful death lawsuit.
We are NOT the type of people who would sue without good cause, and
this was never about the money for us! I say that not to sound superior
or to justify, but because it’s the truth, and those that know me and
the family know we struggled for months before we made the decision to
go forward 5 years ago. We were very lucky to find Brandon Taylor.
From day one, when we contacted Brandon he was up front with us that
this was a long, uphill battle. Through the last 4 ½ years of
depositions, meetings, and finally court, I can say that I have not
found one single point where I have disagreed or thought Brandon had
done the wrong thing.
When mom passed away suddenly in April of
2008, we felt very strongly that she did not receive the correct care in
the hospital. If you come into the ER for very bad flu, and they find a
VERY low blood pressure and decide you need to be admitted to MONITOR
that pressure, you would assume that part of that care would be the
monitoring part! This lack of care led us to research (and eventually
contact) Brandon. Over that first year, we had a number of meetings and
conversations with Brandon and learned a lot about what actually went
on over the 36 hours mom was in the hospital. As more and more details
were revealed to us through the medical records and then depositions, it
became clear to me that we had made the correct choice in pursuing
this.
As I discovered as this process wore on and on, the legal
system moves very, very slowly. It took over a year to get all the
medical records, and it was into the second year before the first
depositions were taken. We then had about a year where nothing really
seemed to be taking place. In reality, Brandon was researching, finding
expert witnesses, taking depositions on them, and doing even more
research. It was not until March of last year when it seemed that real
progress was being made. In March, everything was completed and the
initial motions, and filings were brought to a judge. At that point, we
were directed to take part in a court ordered mediation. We had the
mediation in May of 2012. We all thought that that would be the end.
Again, we were not looking for millions of dollars, we were looking for
admission that there was something done wrong. To us the evidence was
clear, and we thought they would offer a number, we would argue, and
eventually settle. Unfortunately, the defense had no intention of
settling. They did not TELL anyone this, and allowed our lawyer to hire
a very well respected mediator, and have Tina come up from Florida for
the mediation, only to sit in a room for about an hour while the
mediator discovered they were only there because the judge said they had
to be!
With mediation behind us we had the court date set in late
summer. Feb 11th 2013. We thought that was it, sit back and wait for
Feb. Well, as with everything else, we were wrong. There was a sudden
phone call from one of the attorneys wanting to see if we were open to a
settlement, but that never actually went anywhere….though it got our
hopes up!! Then 2 weeks before trial, the hospital lawyer called and
decided they DID want to settle, and we ultimately took the offer. The
offer was not very much but in our minds it was an admission of guilt.
The settlement removed the hospital and two nurses from the lawsuit but
still left the two doctors to be resolved. This brings us up to the
actual trial.
This last week and a half has been one of the most
horrible periods in my entire life. Having to sit in that court room
and relive that 36 hours in exacting detail all over again was very
hard. Tina summed it up well with her comment that it was like ripping
off a band-aid that had just started to heal. Over the last 7 days of
actual court proceedings (we took off a day due to schedule issues) I
had to listen to “experts” say that mom was ELDERLY (come on, no one who
knew her would use that to describe her!!). I also heard how she was
basically dead the second she came into the hospital, that the “die was
cast” as one witness put it. I listened to the defense lawyer blame
everyone NOT in the case….the nurses (who the jury did not know settled)
the ER doctor, the grand kids. Yes, that is right, Tyler, Logan and
Joey were the cause of moms death. You see she ultimately died of a
viral infection of the heart muscle. It has a name, and I can pronounce
the name, but damned if I can spell it….myocarditis is phonetic at
least. In any case, the lawyer kindly pointed out in mom’s medical
chart under her patient history that there were no other sick people in
the house, but that her grandkids had been sick with a viral infection
the previous week, and that may be where she got her flu. So, what
really happened is she went to the ER because she thought she had a
really bad case of the flu. When asked if there was anyone else in the
house who was sick, she said, no, but my grandkids had the flu last
week, and maybe I got it from them. If that one was not hard enough to
sit through, there was more to come. I got to hear testimony from the
doctor who was on duty overnight say that “no, he did not recall Gloria
Campagnone, she was not remarkable.” He didn’t say this once, but
multiple times, over and over when asked questions. Of course he did
not see her once in his entire 12 hour shift, but what can you
expect…she was after all “not remarkable” I managed to sit through all
of that, and not once did I utter a single sound. I am very proud of
the fact that at no time did the judge have to caution me or anyone else
in the family to not disrupt court. I wanted to….I wanted to stand up
and yell, and scream and punch the wall, but I did not. As the
witnesses finished up, and we were left with closing arguments, I
thought that we were done. There would not be any more lurid details of
moms last moments, (She was conscious that morning and responding to
verbal demands as they intubated and put in a central line) there would
not be any more doctors blaming everyone else they possibly could. I
was wrong. As the defense made its closing, and the lawyer walked
through the record one last time, he brought up a point that he wanted
to highlight. I am going to quote it as best I can, the words may not
be 100% correct but the intent is there, and if Tina, or Alan read this,
correct me if I miss speak.
“No one could have known on April 5 or
April 6 how ill Mrs Campagnone was. After all, we heard from Mr
Campagnone (Dad) that they were still planning on leaving town the day
following her release. We heard from Aaron Campagnone, when he visited
her in the ER, and brought lunch that she looked tired, but he felt OK
to leave. In fact, he called and spoke with Mr Campagnone that evening
and did not feel it necessary to return to visit her that night”
Up
until that point, I was impressed that while the defense lawyers were
obviously the “enemy” both of them had been professional and did their
best to limit themselves to making the case, and not saying anything
negative about us. I do not recall ever being angrier with a person and
not being able to confront or deal with that person…ever! Fortunately
for that lawyer, and for me ultimately we had a good 2 hours between
that comment and a break in the proceedings. By that point I had myself
under control and was able to walk out of the courtroom without
assaulting him or making any comment to him. (again, those that know me
well are probably VERY surprised that I was not in fact in jail for
disrupting court!)
After 4 hours of deliberation Tue until 10pm and
then returning Wed and deliberating another 3 hours, the jury did
finally come back and found for the Defense. This was not overall a
surprise to us. We knew it would be difficult to win in court, in this
county. We didn’t go into this with blinders on, and Brandon was very
up front with us that this was a long shot if it went to trial. As we
left the courthouse, I was in disbelief over the outcome. I could not
see how we did not prove the case, and just didn’t understand the
verdict. Brandon stayed in the courthouse and cornered a couple of jury
members that were still there to get their opinions and a better
understanding of what happened. As we waited outside for Brandon to
emerge, we were approached by the judge. He said he is not allowed to
comment on any ongoing case, but now that it was over, he could offer
his condolences etc. I will leave the rest of his comments out of this,
but what he did say did help and bring me some closure. Brandon
finally emerged with 3 of the jury, and the other lawyer from the
defense. (not the one I wanted to physically assault) As Brandon stood
with the 3 jury members, the defense lawyer slowly made his way across
the parking lot to where Tina, Alan, dad and I stood. I have no doubt
that that was one of the longest 20-30 yards that gentleman had ever
walked, and I will give him full credit for making that walk!! It took
huge balls. I can’t honestly say I could have done the same in his
place. All through the trial, this particular lawyer was tasked with
questioning the medical experts. His style tended to be long winded and
he liked to go over the records and medical charts line by line by
line. To say I did not really like the guy is an understatement, but
again, he gained my respect and then some by making that walk. He
extended his condolences and wanted to apologize if he said or did
anything in the trial that we thought was inappropriate or disrespected
moms memory. He truly did not, and I appreciated that he came over.
Tina asked him a question, and again, I am not sure of the wording, but
here is the essence of what she asked. The main doctor in our case had
stated in his testimony that since mom, he had spent extra time trying
to look for that mistake he made, trying to prevent another mom from
happening. So much so that others noticed he was spending an unordinary
amount of time with patients and on rounds. Tina asked the lawyer
flat out if that was true, if in fact this doctor really had made that
effort, and if he had changed. The lawyer said without hesitation that
yes, his testimony was truthful and sincere.
This more than
anything else since the verdict has helped me make peace with what has
happened. Funny that the guy I had more respect for over the course of 6
days blew it on the 7th, and the guy I genuinely disliked for 6 days
provided answer to what I needed to hear the most. We didn’t win, but
we got what we wanted, a change to the mistakes made that day with mom.
No, there was not some huge payout, which is what the insurance
companies understand, but I think that maybe, just maybe there might be
others out there who are still alive because of the lessons learned by
this doctor because of his lack of care for mom.
Ultimately after
talking with Brandon, it looks like the jury did think there was a lack
of care, but that it was not to the level of it being negligent in a
legal sense. We will have to agree to disagree on that one.
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